Relationship Therapy

Transforming despair with Re-pair Therapy

 ‘When the only option in your relationship seems to be ‘put up with it’ or ‘get out’, you are probably feeling frustrated or hopeless. By engaging in Relationship Therapy you will both realise you have the freedom to create opportunities and happiness.’

Are you feeling disappointed, frustrated, resentful, sad, or lonely in your relationship / marriage / partnership?


These are signs that your needs for connection, understanding, acknowledgement or intimacy may not be met. You may even be thinking of separating or looking outside the relationship to get these needs met. When this is happening, we recommend seeking Re-pair Therapy.

The Therapy

Anita and Stephen are experienced couple therapists and work together using this therapeutic method of re-pairing. With a male and female therapist present in the room you are provided with a unique blend of safety, balance and empathy where your views and experiences can be heard and understood. They will facilitate communication between you to reconnect with mutual empathy, respect, appreciation and renewed intimacy.

The Therapists


Anita originates from Germany. New Zealand has been her home for over 30 years. She is a vibrant person and very passionate about her work; her accent and way of thinking is refreshingly different. Her sessions are insightful and uplifting. She has a talent for motivating people and assisting them to develop a positive relationship with themselves. Her motto is; ‘What we focus on is what we create’. It is really important to intentionally train the happy muscles of the brain so that heavy loads are enlightened. The optimistic mind is a resilient mind and allows us to respond to what life throws at us more creatively and successfully - the key is to bend, but not break.


Stephen is able to talk and connect with anyone - across age, culture, and religions. He has a comfortable and easy way with people and their families. This comes from being from a large family and being affected himself in his youth by significant loss and consequently spending a life traveling the world, curious about the wider world, its people, their customs, cultures, religions and how the people of the world deal in different ways and different contexts with the issues and challenges in life that we all face, no matter what gender, colour creed or nation. He brings an open-mindedness that itself encourages openness in others.

Listen to Stephen and Anita talk about CALM relationships:
CALM Relationships - Stephen
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Listen to Stephen and Anita talk about CALM conflict resolution:
CALM confilct resolution - Stephen
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The Result
  • Unwind tension in your relationship

  • Create opportunities to be happy

  • Attend to past problems healthily

  • Address trust or communication issues

  • Understand each other better

  • Discover the power of teamwork